So you want to learn how to give good blow jobs? Let’s get down to business!
Start with your lips — What do you like to rest your head on (no pun intended)? A pillow I hope! Why? Because it’s comfortable to do so. Duh! That’s what you should of your lips as. And that’s what purpose they serve. To make it comfortable for your guy’s head. :) Let’s cover some basic lip techniques you’ll use when performing the art of fellatio.
- The “O” technique — You want to form your lips in the shape of an “O.” You’ll want to start with a loose “O” and then work up to a tighter “O.” Try varying the grip to see what he likes more.
- Kiss the head — View kissing the head like you would kiss his lips. Think French kissing here.
- Suction — We’re talking about lip suction here. This is a technique you wouldn’t want to do while your mouth is completely full of his cock. This technique is not meant as a climax one. It’s meant merely to work him up!
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Licking techniques — Licking is another way to tantalize him while you are cranking up his ecstasy level.
- The lollipop — This one’s easy. Just think of his cock as one of those long lollipops that you had to lick from the bottom to the top in a swirl fashion.
Sucking techniques — This is the most powerful tool for giving good blow jobs in your arsenal so use it wisely! Don’t OVERUSE it!
- Head sucking — Suck. Pure and simple. BUT (and this is important) the intensity is key. If you suck too hard, you’ll cause him discomfort. The key is a moderate suction. A lot of folks get this wrong by thinking harder is better. We’re not Hoover vacuum cleaners here.
- Shaft sucking — This is not the same as deep throating. Take his entire penis into your mouth but without straining yourself or activating your gag reflex. The key will be the up and down motion and finding the speed will be an art. You’ll have to gauge what he likes here.
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When I was learning how to give good blow jobs, learning the basics above were essential. Our sex life got hotter when I learned how to deliver the basics I just gave you. Your partner will enjoy them too!
After awhile though, I sensed that Mark was getting bored. So I had to step up my fellatio game to make things hotter. I wanted to be the best sex that he ever had. So it was important to learn how to give him the best blow job he’s ever had!I tried different advanced blow job techniques. Obviously some worked better than others.
Eventually I stumbled upon a hot resource by a sex expert that appeared on Oprah. I read it and I couldn’t believe how well what I learned worked. I learned some advanced techniques that Mark had never experienced before. And when I started using them, he would start saying things during oral sex that I’d never heard him say before!
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The only thing I didn’t like about it was that it included some of stuff that I already knew (different ways to warm him up to the blow job for example).
But I definitely liked the new tips I learned that enhanced the basic techniques and the advanced techniques I learned – like:
- which moves are the best for bringing him to climax
- what to do if he loses an erection to make his cock hard again
- which licking technique can bring him to orgasm city
- all about deep throating
- which position to be in to avoid activating the gag reflex!
- other ways to spice up fellatio
- how to suck the uncircumcised penis
- the 10 hottest positions to suck his cock in
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